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Vanilla Swingers: Swinger Podcast, Unfiltered AF
30 episodes
Ep 100: Holy Sh*t! Made It to 100 (Didn't See That Coming)
Ep 100 · Aug 13, 2026 · 1 hr 9 min
🎙️ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple's #1 ranked swinger podcast — we're popping the champs because somehow, against all odds, we made it to Episode 100 🍾 👉 We reflect on how 2 newbies accidentally turned a podcast recorded in a car (and still recorded in a car!) into one of the biggest parts of our lifestyle journey. We're spilling the tea on our biggest wins, our biggest fails and the moments that completely changed the trajectory of our journey. Because after 100 episodes, we've…
Ep 99: Catching Couple Feelings - The Magical 4-Way Connection
Ep 99 · Jul 30, 2026 · 60 min
🦋 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple's #1 ranked swinger podcast — we're doing something the lifestyle tells you never to do... catching the feels?!? 👉 2 1/2 weeks after our 2nd-ever full couple swap, the NRE is still burning bright, and we may have stumbled into our very first couple crush. Instead of running from the butterflies, we're leaning all the way in... because nothing lasts forever in the lifestyle, so why not let it burn baby BURN? ❤️🔥 👉 PLUS... we road-trip down to Ill…
Ep 98: Naughty N'awlins F*ckfest - Couple Crush Edition
Ep 98 · Jul 22, 2026 · 58 min
🎺 In this NRE-fueled episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple's #1 ranked swinger podcast — we recap Naughty N'awlins 2026, a fully immersive sensory overload where 3,000 swingers take over the corner of Bourbon and Canal Street... Think Bourbon Street bar takeovers, rooftop pool parties, blowjob school, and 4 nights of costumes ranging from Bordello to Alice in Wonderland... because subtlety isn't really Naughty's thing 🐇🍰🎩❤️♠️ 👉 PLUS... we hosted Speed Dating for a couple hundred listeners. Wa…
Ep 97: Oscar-Worthy 'The Invite' Delivers & Busts Hollywood's Swinger Myths
Ep 97 · Jul 15, 2026 · 55 min
🍍 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple's #1 ranked swinger podcast — we're busting the biggest swinger myths! Is every party one giant orgy? Are all swinger wives bisexual? And are swingers really just sex addicts? Umm, no, probably & maybe ;) 👉 PLUS... we review The Invite! 🎬 No spoilers, but we went in expecting another Hollywood swinger train wreck and walked out genuinely impressed. 100% recommend! Only beef is that it's a little too mainstream for our taboo little secret 🤫 👉 We…
Ep 96: Dirty Vegas - Mike Tyson's White Tiger Mansion Party Knockout
Ep 96 · Jul 1, 2026 · 49 min
🐯 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple's #1 ranked swinger podcast — 1,200 swingers descend on Las Vegas... and somehow we end up partying at Mike Tyson's White Tiger Mansion 🤜🏻😵 TKO! 👉 Just another completely normal weekend... 🤪 We recap Dirty Vegas 2026, the highs, the lows, why Plush continues to throw some of the best 'dirty vanilla' parties in the lifestyle, and whether this budget-friendly takeover deserves a spot on your calendar. 👉 PLUS... our carefully planned Vegas MFM we…
Ep 95: The Infamous One Penis Policy (And Why It Blows)
Ep 95 · Jun 17, 2026 · 1 hr 5 min
🍆 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — apparently we have a One Penis Policy now. At least according to the hate mail 💌 👉 We dive into why One Penis Policies get so much criticism in the lifestyle, where we think some of that criticism is fair, and why "fair's fair" when it comes to extra play opportunities. We also talk about a couple with a textbook OPP who somehow manages to check every unicorn hunter box while borrowing a few tricks straight out of the…
Ep 94: Aftercare? What Cums After the Orgasm
Ep 94 · Jun 3, 2026 · 42 min
😩 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — the sex is over... now what? 👉 Kat & Leo dive into one of the most overlooked parts of the lifestyle - aftercare. Not just aftercare for your spouse, but aftercare for your play partners too. We talk about the evolution of our own journey, from rushing home for reclamation sex to lingering over greasy diner food at 2 a.m. 👉 The spaces between are goated. The late-night walks. The cuddles. The sleepovers. The flirty te…
Ep 93: Guys Are Total Suckers (For A Compliment)
Ep 93 · May 27, 2026 · 55 min
🍭 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we accidentally discovered the male equivalent of receiving flowers - a compliment 💐🙌 👉 After 2 back-to-back MFF adventures (with some sneaky Russian & Ukrainian Easter eggs 🐣 hidden inside), Leo learns firsthand that one tiny compliment can apparently fuel a man for the next decade. What's up with men getting no compliments!? We can do better, ladies! 👉 We also detail our Tatyana houseboat saga and recap our 3rd I…
Ep 92: How Not to F*ck Up a Couple Swap (Don't Do What We Did)
Ep 92 · May 20, 2026 · 54 min
🌷 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re breaking down the art of the newbie couple swap and how our Amsterdam adventure went from a swipe on Feeld… to drinks at our apartment… to icebreaker games… to a full-on couple swap flop 😵 👉 We’re sharing the real playbook for a successful newbie couple swap, of which ours was NOT! The texting phase, where to meet, reading the room, when to have the boundary talk, how to lower the awkwardness, and the little mis…
Ep 91: Swinging in Europe - Kat's Gone Wild XXX Edition
Ep 91 · May 13, 2026 · 60 min
✈️ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re finally back from Europe… and let’s just say, Katlandia XXX World Tour did not disappoint. 😈 👉 From the canals of Amsterdam to the late-night magic of Paris to the pizza, pasta & gelato of Rome, this trip turned into one of the wildest sexcations we’ve ever had. And YES… it was absolutely raining cute 20-something men. European men, specifically. The kind with charm, confidence, emotional awareness, and enough e…
Ep 90: Swinger Movies That Totally SUCK (And the Ones We Actually Love)
Ep 90 · Apr 20, 2026 · 51 min
🎬 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving headfirst into the wild, awkward, and occasionally way too real world of swinger movies. 👉 Kat & Leo break down the hits, the “wait…why is this kinda hot?” moments you must watch, rewind and watch again, and the absolute trainwrecks that should’ve stayed in the VHS era. From swinger movies and threesome TV shows that surprisingly get it right to chaotic messes where everything implodes (emotionally, sexual…
Ep 89: Breaking Up Is Hard to Do… Even in the Lifestyle
Ep 89 · Apr 8, 2026 · 47 min
💔 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re saying the quiet part out loud - you can get broken up with in the lifestyle… and yeah, it hits harder than you think. 👉 Kat & Leo dive into the reality of lifestyle “breakups” and share our own story. We unpack what it’s like to be on the receiving end of rejection in a space that’s supposed to be no-strings-attached, and why it still manages to hit your ego (and your feelings) a little harder than expected. 👉…
Ep 88: Vegas for Swingers: To Grandma’s House We Go (Whispers & Red Rooster Review)
Ep 88 · Apr 2, 2026 · 58 min
🐓 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo set out to see what happens when your slightly unhinged uncle hosts a backyard BBQ… but make it Vegas. Welcome to Red Rooster & Whispers and our continued origin story.... 👉 In Part 1 of our Vegas for Swingers series, we break down 2 of the city’s most down-home, no-frills lifestyle spots. We’re talking low-key vibes, familiar faces, budget-friendly nights, and what it’s really like when the scene feels less…
Ep 87: Katfished! Hook, Line & Sinker - How to Spot Fake Profiles
Ep 87 · Mar 19, 2026 · 53 min
🐱 You ever look at a profile and think… no way this is real? Yeah. We didn’t. In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re saying it out loud - we got catfished, hook, line & sinker. 👉 Kat & Leo dive into one of the most universal (and awkward) experiences in the swinger lifestyle -when a too-good-to-be-true profile turns into a full-blown reality check. We’re talking “recent photos” that aged like milk, creative angles doing Olympic-level work, and that exac…
Ep 86: Catching Feels? F*ck Yeah! Why Feelings Are the GOAT of Swinging
Ep 86 · Mar 13, 2026 · 54 min
🥰 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re poking at the lifestyle rule everyone swears by… and almost nobody actually follows - don’t catch feelings. 👉 Because apparently the plan is to flirt all night, get naked together, share some very enthusiastic orgasms… and then high-five politely and feel absolutely nothing. Sure. Totally how humans work. 👉 Are we really supposed to feel absolutely nothing? We talk about lifestyle crushes, why chemistry, dopamin…
Ep 85: Couple to Throuple - Chasing the Dragon in Vegas
Ep 85 · Mar 4, 2026 · 45 min
🎠 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving into the Peacock reality show Couple to Throuple and asking the question - do most couples actually have the emotional intelligence to add a third… or are they just unicorn shopping? 👉 Kat & Leo break down the dynamics we saw on the show - from unicorn hunter couples clearly chasing fantasy MFF scenarios to the rare pair who actually understood what it takes to build real throuple energy. 👉 PLUS we unfold…
Ep 84: Vetting F*ing Sucks - Why We Hate Swinger Club Velvet Ropes
Ep 84 · Feb 19, 2026 · 50 min
⛔ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re saying it out loud: We hate vetting. 👉 Safety matters. Obviously. But vetting has drifted into something else - less protection, more preference. Beauty bias, age bias, dress code bias, “vibe” bias… basically club owners playing God with the guest list and calling it “standards.” 👉 And in an egalitarian lifestyle that claims to celebrate every body? Vetting feels like the ultimate contradiction. Plus hear us talk…
Ep 83: You Up? Lifestyle Sexting Do’s, Don’ts, and WTFs!!
Ep 83 · Feb 12, 2026 · 1 hr 1 min
💬 Kat loves sexting. Leo... tolerates it. In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we talk about how sexting started as a total no-go (too intimate, too risky, too "why does this man have direct access to my wife?!") but has turned into one of the hottest parts of our lifestyle toolbox. 👉 We talk about why group sexting is hilarious and hot, why solo DMs need boundaries, and how Leo came around to the idea that sexting isn’t cheating - it’s bespoke porn, person…
Ep 82: F*cking Porn Stars! Our AVN Awards Show Vegas Recap
Ep 82 · Feb 3, 2026 · 1 hr 3 min
🏆 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we spill all the champagne-soaked tea from the 2026 AVN Awards in Las Vegas, the Oscars of porn, but with more glitter, less clothing, and a red carpet that just. kept. going. 👉 From Wiz Khalifa sightings to red carpet kisses to the award going to… NOT US (lol), we break down the weird, wild, and wonderful chaos of the adult industry’s biggest weekend - all through a swinger’s eyes (Spoiler: Lifestylers are more sexual…
Ep 81: Illuminaughty New Year's Eve & Threesome Afterparty
Ep 81 · Jan 20, 2026 · 50 min
🥂 In this New Year's episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re pulling back the velvet curtain on Illuminaughty, the mysterious, ultra-curated house party you’ve probably heard of… but never really heard much about. Spoiler: we showed up, dressed to the Gatsby nines, and rang in 2026 with full-blown throuple energy. 👉 We’re also talking about how we really feel about vetting, what makes vetted events like Illuminaughty actually work (and what doesn’t), and why thi…
Ep 80: Naughty New Year’s Resolutions - Swinger Bingo Edition
Ep 80 · Dec 30, 2025 · 47 min
🍾 Forget boring New Year’s resolutions. In the swinger lifestyle, we do things differently - like making a filthy swingers bingo card. 👉 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast and 2025 Best Podcast Winner — we ditch vague goals and go full bingo mode, mapping out the fantasies, hookups, and “are we really doing this?” moments we want to chase this year. 👉 We talk about how our fantasies have evolved and how this little bingo experiment turned into one of the h…
Ep 79: Ho Ho... How to Get Your Girl to Swing (And Not F*ck It Up)
Ep 79 · Dec 24, 2025 · 59 min
🎅🏻 So… you’re curious about swinging. But your partner? Not exactly. 👉 In this special holiday episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo break down how to actually bring up the swinger lifestyle without making it weird, blowing up the relationship, or sounding like you’re just trying to bang other people. (Spoiler: “We should go on an adventure together” works way better than “I want to f*ck strangers.”) 👉 From sexcations and spicy porn nights to pillow-talk…
Ep 78: Swinger Discretion: How Not to Get Caught (Sex, Lies & Alibis)
Ep 78 · Dec 17, 2025 · 48 min
🕵🏻♀️ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo break down one of the most underrated skills in the swinger lifestyle: discretion and how not to get caught. 👉 Living a swinger double life is one thing - living it without getting caught is another. We dive into the real-world privacy mistakes that expose swingers fast: burner phones, locked screens, fake calendar entries, sloppy alibis, and the Bluetooth auto-play nightmare no one warns you about. 👉 T…
Ep 77: Swinger Thanksgiving: Celebrating 2 Wild Years in the Lifestyle
Ep 77 · Dec 3, 2025 · 56 min
🦃 It’s our swinger Thanksgiving special, and we’re serving gratitude with a side of slutty stuffing. 👉 In this special Thanksgiving episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo Kat & Leo emerge from their 2-year swingermoon to give thanks for everything the swinger lifestyle has brought into their lives. 👉 From discussing DP over brunch to sweet tea in a playroom, and all the unexpected moments, sexy surprises, and lifestyle friends that left us speechless, swea…
Ep 76: First Full Swap - Couple Swap Virginity Lost in Vegas
Ep 76 · Nov 20, 2025 · 1 hr 1 min
🍒 In the swinger lifestyle, there’s soft swap… and then there’s full swap. And guess what? We finally did it. In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast and 2025 Best Podcast Winner — Kat & Leo cross the line and become a full swap couple… in Vegas, baby. 👉 That’s right - after 2 years of soft swapping, gerrymandering, emotional spirals, flirting, and horny hesitation, the full couple swap finally happened. And plot twist: it wasn’t even scary 😱😲😬. It was intima…
Ep 75: Jealousy, Mindf*cks, and Wait… Did Leo Just Have Lesbian Sex?
Ep 75 · Nov 5, 2025 · 47 min
💚 Jealousy, the uninvited plus-one that shows up at every swinger party sooner or later. In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo dive deep into one of the most uncomfortable but universal parts of swinging: jealousy in the swinger lifestyle. 👉 We’re breaking down how to navigate jealousy in the swinger lifestyle, how it shows up in unexpected ways (like getting jealous over a play partner's playdates 😬), and why communication, self-awareness, and th…
Ep 74: Plush’s Flesh & Fantasy Ball - Kat Does P0rn (Boy, Was It Worth the Wait)
Ep 74 · Oct 30, 2025 · 52 min
🎃 The MFM drought is officially DEAD and spooky season brought us the sexiest resurrection. 👉 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we hit the road for a Halloween swingermoon through LA and Palm Springs, ending (on a total whim) at the Plush Flesh & Fantasy Ball. Dressed to impress as a football player and a schoolgirl, our Sextober kickoff was high-octane from the jump: ✅ Club Joi undergrad unicorn with big varsity energy ✅ A very enthusiastic co-star who…
Ep 73: 3Fun vs Feeld – Which App Is Best for Swingers & Threesomes?
Ep 73 · Oct 23, 2025 · 53 min
🔥 The dating app chaos is real - especially in the world the swinger and ENM lifestyle. In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re breaking down two of the most talked-about open-minded dating apps: Feeld vs 3Fun. 👉 If you’ve ever found yourself swiping through a sea of blurry selfies, cryptic bios, and “just exploring” couples who ghost faster than they match - this one’s for you. We’re spilling the tea on: Which app has better matches for swingers, hotwiv…
Ep 72: Playroom Virgins? Surviving Your First Swinger Club Playroom
Ep 72 · Oct 15, 2025 · 1 hr 3 min
🍑 So you’ve made it past the swinger club door, stripped down to your sexiest (or skimpiest) outfit… now what? In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we walk you through the wild, unspoken world of swinger club playrooms - how to go from flirting to f*cking and everything in between. We’re talking: 💋 How to go from polite conversation to parallel play 💃 Why your girl is your best wingwoman (and should lead the charge) 👙 What to wear when “dress code” means…
Ep 71: Plush Hollywood Mansion Swinger Party - Swing and a Miss
Ep 71 · Oct 9, 2025 · 46 min
⚾️ Live from Vegas - yep, still 0-for-everything. Another swing and a miss in Sin City, and a strikeout the weekend before at Plush LA. Our MFM drought is real, but so is our resilience (and our road trip playlist). 👉 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re talking about both weekends - starting with our 6-hour dash to LA for a 14,000-square-foot swinger mansion party hosted by Plush Parties. Infinity pool, group showers, Cali King beds... it was a full-o…
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