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How to Respond When Another Kid Takes Your Toddler's Toy
Ep 187 · Aug 12, 2026 · 11 min
Another child takes your toddler's toy, and you freeze or you feel your blood pressure spike at the other parent standing right there, not stepping in. This video walks through exactly what to say and do, whether or not the other parent gets involved. Toddlers as young as 20 months already actively assert ownership, and by 30 months they're standing their ground against a peer's attempts to take what's theirs, which is part of why these moments feel so constant and so charged (Ross, 2013). In th…
How to Respond When Your Toddler Keeps Hitting Other Kids
Ep 186 · Aug 5, 2026 · 11 min
If your toddler keeps hitting other kids — not a single tap, but real, repeated hitting — you've probably already heard "check in with the hurt child first." That advice is right, but it's incomplete. It doesn't tell you what to actually do about the hitting itself, especially when it keeps happening. In this episode, I'm walking through the CATCH Method — the exact 5-step sequence I use in my practice for repeated physical aggression in toddlers, including close supervision, physical interrupti…
How to Respond When Your Toddler Takes a Toy
Ep 185 · Jul 29, 2026 · 4 min
✨ Want a proven way to handle every parenting conflict with confidence? Register for the free workshop → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop Your toddler grabs a toy from another child, and suddenly you're not just managing your kid — you're managing your own embarrassment in front of the other parent. This episode walks through exactly what to say to your child, and how to handle the other adult without over-apologizing. Toddlers are only just beginning to understand ownership as a conce…
3 Critical Things for Getting Teens to Talk
Ep 184 · Jul 22, 2026 · 11 min
✨ 🔗 Want proven strategies for how to talk to teenagers from a child psychologist? Register for the free workshop → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop Every month you spend in the wrong dynamic with your teenager is a month they practice keeping you out. And once that becomes a habit, it's very hard to reverse. This episode breaks down the 3 most critical things that keep the relationship strong enough that your teenager will still come to you when it matters most. In this episode: → Wh…
3 Critical Things That Build Confident Kids (Ages 5-11)
Ep 183 · Jul 15, 2026 · 11 min
✨ 🔗 Want proven strategies for building confidence in kids from a child psychologist? Register for the free workshop → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop If you've been praising your child's grades, celebrating their trophies, and telling them how proud you are every time they perform well — you may be accidentally building the kind of confidence that collapses the moment things go wrong. This video breaks down the 3 critical things that build genuinely confident, capable kids in the el…
3 Critical Things Every Parent of Toddlers Should Know
Ep 182 · Jul 8, 2026 · 11 min
✨ 🔗 Want proven strategies beyond toddler behavior from a child psychologist? Register for the free workshop → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop Most parenting advice about toddler behavior gets it completely backwards — and if you've been following it, you may be accidentally training your toddler to keep doing the exact thing you're trying to stop. This video breaks down the 3 most critical things that determine whether toddlerhood becomes a season of power struggles — or a foundatio…
3 Critical Things Every New Parent Should Know
Ep 181 · Jul 1, 2026 · 11 min
✨ 🔗 Want proven strategies to build secure attachment from a child psychologist? Register for the free workshop → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop As a clinical psychologist who works with hundreds of families every day, I've seen one pattern clearly: the first year of your baby's life is the most critical window for building secure attachment baby — the foundation that shapes their brain, their relationships, and their resilience for decades. And most new parents are focused on entir…
5 Ways to Respond When Your Toddler Hits Another Child
Ep 180 · Jun 24, 2026 · 13 min
✨ Want proven strategies for child hitting and beyond from a child psychologist? Register for the free workshop → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop When your toddler hits another child — at a playdate, at preschool, with a sibling — the stakes feel completely different than when they hit you. Parents are managing three relationships at once: their child, the child who got hit, and the other parent watching it all unfold. The instincts most parents reach for in that moment are understand…
5 Ways to Respond to Toddler Hitting (Which One Works Best?)
Jun 17, 2026 · 12 min
✨ Want proven strategies beyond toddler hitting from a child psychologist? Register for the free workshop → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop Why toddlers hit is one of the most common questions I get from parents — and the most common responses parents reach for are actually reinforcing the very behavior they're trying to stop. This video breaks down the five responses most parents use when their toddler hits, which ones are making things worse, and the one that actually works. Toddler…
STOP Toddler Tantrums BEFORE They Start
Ep 178 · Jun 9, 2026 · 20 min
✨ Stop toddler tantrums before they start. Learn the complete system: drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop Stop toddler tantrums before they start by catching the Pivot Window — the specific period before a child fully dysregulates where three strategies can redirect the escalation entirely. Dr. Lindsay Emmerson explains why the instinctive parental responses in this window make meltdowns more likely, and what to do instead. In this episode: → • What the Pivot Window is and how to recognize it in chil…
Talking Makes Tantrums WORSE. Do THIS Instead.
Ep 177 · Jun 3, 2026 · 17 min
✨ Ready to move beyond what to do during a toddler tantrum — and what to stop doing? → drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop Knowing what to do during a toddler tantrum is one of the most common questions parents search — and most of the instinctive answers make tantrums last longer. In this video, Dr. Lindsay Emmerson explains why the Escalation Loop runs on parental engagement, and gives parents the three-step approach that actually breaks it. Most toddler tantrum advice focuses on what to say. This…
Why SUMMER Break BREAKS Your Kid Every Year
Ep 176 · May 27, 2026 · 14 min
✨ Ready to move beyond why kids struggle in summer — and what to do about it? → drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop Why kids struggle in summer — even kids who thrived during the school year — is one of the most misunderstood behavior challenges in parenting. In this video, Dr. Lindsay Emmerson explains the Predictability Drop, why it happens to virtually every family in the first weeks of summer, and the three-part framework that resolves it in as little as two weeks. In this episode: • Why kids str…
Does Gentle Parenting Actually Work?
Ep 175 · May 20, 2026 · 10 min
✨ Free workshop for parents → drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop | Learn the research-backed approach that gives you warmth and structure together — not as a trade-off. Gentle parenting gets a lot right. But as most parents practice it, something is missing — and that gap is exactly why so many parents who are genuinely trying to implement it still feel like something isn't working. This video names the gap directly, explains what sixty years of research actually says about what produces the best ou…
The Two Types of Parents (Which One Are You?)
Ep 174 · May 13, 2026 · 10 min
✨ Free workshop for parents → drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop | Learn the authoritative parenting framework that holds warmth and structure together — every day, not on alternating ones. Authoritative parenting produces the best outcomes for children across every measure the research tracks — but most parents have never seen what it actually looks like in a real home on a real day. This video uses one of the most surprisingly accurate parenting illustrations in film history to show exactly what t…
Why Timeouts and Reward Charts Don't Work
Ep 173 · May 6, 2026 · 9 min
✨ Free workshop for parents → drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop | Get the research-backed framework that makes every parenting strategy finally work. Why don't timeouts work? Why do reward charts stop producing results after two weeks? Why do consequences stick for a few days and then behavior slides right back? The answer to all three questions is the same — and it's probably not what you think. This video explains the real reason common parenting strategies keep failing, and names the foundationa…
Why You Keep Snapping at Your Kids
Ep 172 · Apr 29, 2026 · 9 min
✨ Free workshop for parents → drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop | Stop the snap-and-guilt cycle with the 5 C's to Amazing Parenting. Stop snapping at your kids — even when they're pushing every button you have, even at 7am when the morning is already off the rails. If you've ever woken up genuinely promising yourself today will be different, only to find yourself reacting the exact same way by 8am, this video tells you exactly why — and gives you a named, practical tool to interrupt the cycle start…
Why Your Strong-Willed Child Argues About Everything
Ep 171 · Apr 21, 2026 · 13 min
✨ Raising a strong-willed child and need support tailored to your specific situation? Join the Amazing Parents Club for weekly live Q&As with Dr. Lindsay → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop Strong-willed children who argue about everything aren't being disrespectful — their developing brains are doing exactly what they're supposed to do. In this video, Dr. Lindsay uses Piaget's research on the preoperational stage (ages 2–7) to show you why the arguing is a sign of healthy development,…
Is Spanking Effective? What 75 Studies Actually Show
Ep 170 · Apr 16, 2026 · 18 min
✨ Ready to try discipline without spanking — but not sure where to start? My free workshop will show you how → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop Discipline without spanking is possible — and in this video, Dr. Lindsay Emmerson (licensed clinical psychologist) explains exactly why physical punishment stops working over time, and what to reach for instead. If you've ever reached for spanking as discipline and immediately felt that wave of dread afterward, that feeling is important informa…
You're Not Too Soft. You're Missing One Tool.
Ep 169 · Apr 8, 2026 · 13 min
Toddler discipline advice is everywhere — but if you've been explaining the behavior, teaching your child a better option, and watching them do the exact same thing again, you're not failing. You're parenting with an incomplete toolkit. In this video, I'm showing you exactly what's missing and what to do about it — for toddlers, for preschoolers, and for kids who keep testing the same limit over and over again. This isn't about being strict. It's about giving yourself the full toolkit. 💥 FREE W…
Toddler Discipline: Why Limits Must Start at Age 1
Ep 168 · Apr 3, 2026 · 11 min
If your child ignores your limits — or if setting them feels like a battle — this video is for you. Toddler discipline is something every parent is navigating — but most are starting way too late and don't know it. Most parents wait too long to start teaching limits. The result? By the time the behavior becomes a real problem, your child has been practicing it for years. In this video, I'm walking you through exactly when and how boundaries need to start, why so much of the online advice is miss…
Why Kids Don't Listen (And What Actually Works)
Ep 167 · Mar 25, 2026 · 12 min
Why kids don't listen is one of the most common questions I get from parents — and the answer isn't what most people expect. It's almost never about defiance. It's almost always about how communication is happening. And that means it can be changed. In this video I'm walking you through five specific, research-backed reasons your child may be tuning out your words — and for each one, a practical strategy you can start using today. This is how to get kids to listen without repeating yourself, wit…
Your Child Can't Calm Down Without You (Here's Why)
Ep 166 · Mar 18, 2026 · 14 min
Want to go deeper? Join me for my FREE Parenting Reset Workshop — my complete framework for moving from reactive to intentional, consistently. → Register at https://drlindsayemmerson.com/reset Calm parenting isn't about being perfect — it's about understanding what your child's brain actually needs in a hard moment. And the science is clear: children cannot return to a calm state on their own. They need you to get there first. In this video I'm breaking down co-regulation — what it is, why it wo…
5 Ways to Respond When Your Kid Melts Down Over Something Small (Which One Are You)
Ep 165 · Mar 11, 2026 · 12 min
✨ Want to ask Dr. Lindsay how to handle your specific parenting situations? Join the Amazing Parents Club for weekly live Q&As → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/club Intentional parenting sounds great in theory. But what does it actually look like when you've sliced an apple, and your kid is screaming from the other room? In this video, I walk through 5 real ways parents respond to everyday moments like this one — from the empathetic response to the humor response to the "I am running on empty…
I Reluctantly Became a Homeschool Mom: My ADHD Parenting Strategy Changed Everything
Ep 164 · Mar 4, 2026 · 12 min
ADHD parenting strategies don't always look the way we expect — and for me, the one that finally worked was the last one I ever thought I'd try. I never planned to homeschool. I have four kids, one of whom has ADHD, and after the chaos of COVID school-from-home, I wanted absolutely no part of being responsible for my child's education. But after years of 504 plans, unsupportive teachers, junior high overwhelm, and watching my bright kid become miserable in a system that wasn't built for his brai…
The Parenting Reset: Stop Reacting, Start Intentional Parenting
Ep 163 · Feb 26, 2026 · 24 min
✨ Ready to transform your parenting from reactive to intentional? Join the Amazing Parents Club now → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/club In this episode, I'm sharing the research-backed parenting approach that's been proven for over 60 years to create happier, more confident, better-behaved kids—and it's something almost nobody knows about. You'll discover the authoritative parenting style that research proves works best, why the "strict parent/lenient parent" dynamic from TV shows actually…
End Daily Battles With This 5-Day Plan
Ep 162 · Feb 18, 2026 · 20 min
✨ Ready to transform chaos into calm through the power of consistency? Join my FREE Parenting Reset Workshop → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/reset Feeling like you're constantly repeating yourself, battling bedtime, and stuck in power struggles? You're not alone—and it's not your fault. Inconsistent routines create anxious, testing kids. But when you master the 5 pillars of consistency, everything changes. In this episode, I show you the complete framework that transforms family dynamics: un…
3 Words That Get Kids to Listen First Time
Ep 161 · Feb 11, 2026 · 9 min
✨ Start parenting with the entire 5 C's parenting framework → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/club Exhausted from repeating yourself? You're not alone—and it's not your fault. The way most of us communicate with our children accidentally teaches them they don't have to listen. In this episode, I show you the simple three-word shift that transforms how children respond to your requests. You'll discover why "Can you please..." is sabotaging you, the three words that get kids listening the first…
Brain Research Shows Why You're Always One Step Behind Your Child
Ep 160 · Feb 4, 2026 · 9 min
✨ Ready to transform from reactive chaos to intentional confidence? Join my FREE Parenting Reset Workshop → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop Feeling like you're constantly reacting to your child's behavior instead of preventing it? You're not alone—and it's not your fault. There's a neurological reason your brain keeps you stuck in reactive mode, and in this video, I show you exactly how to shift into intentional, confident parenting. You'll discover what reactive parenting actually lo…
The New Way to Be a Father in 2026. Start Now.
Ep 159 · Jan 28, 2026 · 12 min
✨ Stop searching for answers in the comment section—get the complete system inside The Amazing Parents Club → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/club In this episode, I show you a fathering approach backed by 60 years of psychology research that teaches respect without fear. I explain why the old authoritarian model fails, how fear-based discipline damages confidence and emotional health, and what it really means to be a strong, connected leader in your family. You'll learn how your physical pres…
Use Two Words Today to Stop Losing Your Cool
Ep 158 · Jan 21, 2026 · 13 min
✨ Invest in your family relationships—not just another parenting course. Join The Amazing Parents Club for the complete 5 C's framework + community → https://www.drlindsayemmerson.com/club In this video, I teach you a simple, science-backed strategy that can help you lose your cool less often and let go of the guilt that follows. I explain why calm parenting isn't about never feeling angry, but about what you do in the moments when emotions spike, and I show you how two powerful words, try again…
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