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10 MINUTES TO LESS SUFFERING
30 episodes
Are You Trying To Start Over?: Finding Hope Through Uncertainty
Ep 342 · Jul 30, 2026 · 10 min
Starting over is one of life's most challenging experiences. Whether it follows the end of a relationship, divorce, job loss, rejection, grief, or another major life transition, it can leave people feeling lost, uncertain, and overwhelmed. In this episode of 10 Minutes to Less Suffering, listeners are invited to see these moments from a different perspective. This inspiring conversation explores how emptiness is not the end of the story. It is the space where healing begins and new possibilities…
How Can We Stick Up For Ourselves And Still Find Peace?
Ep 341 · Jul 24, 2026 · 10 min
What really steals our peace, and how do we get it back? This episode breaks down five practical keys to lasting inner peace: accepting what's outside your control, identifying your true unmet needs, understanding what others need too, living with meaning, and embracing uncertainty instead of fearing it. Listeners walk away with a simple, repeatable framework for advocating for themselves at work, in relationships, and in daily life, without losing their calm. A grounded, actionable guide for an…
Is The Best Always Happening Or Do We Need To Make The Best Of It?
Ep 340 · Jul 10, 2026 · 11 min
When life falls apart, do you have to believe everything happens for a reason or is it enough to make the best of what happened? This episode explores a compassionate alternative to toxic positivity, offering practical tools for navigating heartbreak, grief, divorce, career setbacks, uncertainty, anxiety, and life's unexpected challenges. Learn how acknowledging your emotions, practicing gratitude, embracing uncertainty, and living in Maybe can help you move forward without denying the reality o…
Hope Without A Deadline
Ep 339 · Jun 18, 2026 · 10 min
What happens when the thing you're waiting for doesn't arrive "on time"? When the healing, the relationship, the turnaround, or the recovery doesn't show up by the date you secretly set for it? In this episode, we explore why hope tied to a deadline so often collapses into hopelessness, and how to hold onto hope in a way that can't expire. You'll learn the difference between real hope and "certainty dressed up as hope," why phrases like "I should be over this by now" quietly break our hearts, an…
Because You Don't Know What's Going To Happen Next, It Doesn't Mean It's Going To Be Bad
Ep 338 · Jun 12, 2026 · 11 min
At times, the unforeseen disrupts our plans. Whether it's losing a job, the end of a relationship, or facing health issues, it can completely upend our lives. How do we navigate these turbulent times with hope and not despair? How do we cultivate resilience and ease our anxieties and stress about the future? Listen to this encore podcast for a path to see uncertainty as a gateway to new beginnings, opportunities, and hope on the horizon. Maybe Everything Is Okay: A Parent's Guide to Less Stress…
Maybe Everything Is Okay: A Parent's Guide To Less Stress and Worry
Ep 337 · Jun 5, 2026 · 11 min
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the uncertainty of raising children in today's world? Whether it's fears about school violence, illness, bullying, or simply not knowing what tomorrow holds, it's easy to lose hope when life doesn't go as planned. In this episode of 10 Minutes to Less Suffering, we explore a powerful mindset shift that helps parents navigate the unknown with greater ease and renewed hope. Through practical tools and uplifting perspective, this episode explains the "Maybe Mindset…
Is AI Making You Feel Scared About Your Future?
Ep 336 · May 19, 2026 · 11 min
If the constant noise around artificial intelligence is leaving you feeling anxious, uncertain, or like your future is out of your hands, this episode is for you. Whether you are a professional worried about job security, someone seeking more peace and purpose, or simply anyone trying to make sense of a rapidly changing world, you will find something here to help you breathe again. This episode covers how to recognize when fear is quietly stealing your power, a simple grounding practice to bring…
Finding Out Who You Really Are | Reclaiming Your Identity & Authentic Self
Ep 335 · May 9, 2026 · 11 min
Have you ever looked up and realized you've slowly become someone you don't recognize? Whether it's a demanding relationship, a draining job, or the chaos of everyday life, it's easy to lose touch with your true self. In this episode of 10 Minutes to Less Suffering, we explore the powerful journey of rediscovering your authentic identity after losing yourself. Through personal stories and practical tools, you'll learn how to cut through the noise and reconnect with who you really are. In this ep…
If We Try To Control It, It Will Control Us
Ep 334 · May 1, 2026 · 10 min
Do you ever feel like letting go of control isn't enough, like something is still weighing on you? This podcast explores a powerful idea: it's not just about releasing control. It's about recognizing that what you can't control doesn't get to control you either. Through real-life stories about family stress, work anxiety, relationships, and parenting, this episode breaks down how this two-sided shift creates true freedom, peace, and detachment from suffering. Learn how to stop letting outcomes,…
Love Is Not The Destination: It Is Always Where You Are Traveling From
Ep 333 · Apr 14, 2026 · 11 min
Have you ever found yourself searching for love, approval, or connection and feeling worse the more you looked? This episode is for you. So many of us grow up believing love is something we have to find, earn, or wait for. We look for it in relationships, in validation, in achievement. And the more we search, the emptier we feel. But what if that emptiness is not real? Or what if what you think you lack was never missing? This episode explores one of the most common and painful patterns in human…
How Can You Find True Balance In Your Life?
Ep 332 · Apr 3, 2026 · 10 min
True balance isn't just about eating well, sleeping, and exercising. It's about aligning your inner world with your outer world. In this episode, we explore why so many high-achieving, productive people feel off-balance despite doing everything "right," and what's really missing: the connection to your authentic self and your natural inner rhythm. Learn how the relentless demands of the outer world can pull you away from your own pace, your own truth, and your own power. Discover two simple but…
Gratitude And Uncertainty Are The Keys To A Good Life
Ep 331 · Mar 20, 2026 · 11 min
When life feels overwhelming, gratitude is the last thing on your mind. But what if gratitude and uncertainty, used together, are the most powerful tools you have to stop suffering and reclaim your life right now? In this episode, learn why stress and anxiety make your problems feel so loud, how to turn down the volume, and why the unknown future is not something to fear but something to celebrate. The "maybe" practice introduced here has the power to dissolve anxiety, open your heart, and remin…
Dealing With the Unexpected: When Life Throws You A CurveBall
Ep 330 · Feb 24, 2026 · 11 min
When life throws you a curveball, do you spiral into fear or step into presence? In this episode of Ten Minutes to Less Suffering, discover how to handle unexpected events without overwhelm, manage anxiety in real time, and shift from panic to clarity using one powerful mindset tool: maybe. Learn how to Stay present during crisis Release the need for certainty Stop catastrophic thinking Let go of control without giving up your power Make flexible plans in uncertain situations Access your calm, w…
Where Is Your Happy Hour? How To Stop Worrying About The Future
Ep 329 · Feb 17, 2026 · 11 min
In this episode, we explore a powerful question. Where is your happy hour? Why do we place our peace and joy in a time to come? After the promotion. After the approval. After the uncertainty clears. If you struggle with anxiety about the future, overthinking, or feeling like you are just getting through the day, this episode is for you. You will learn: How we give our joy away to future fears How to stay present even when life feels uncertain A simple maybe practice to calm anxiety How to create…
When Avoiding The News Doesn't Bring You Peace
Ep 328 · Feb 6, 2026 · 11 min
Many people stop watching the news in hopes of finding peace, relief, or emotional balance. But does turning away from world events actually reduce suffering, or does it quietly create new forms of stress and inner conflict? This episode explores a familiar modern response to overwhelm: avoiding the news as a way to cope. Rather than telling listeners what they should or should not watch, the conversation looks at the emotional difference between healthy boundaries and avoidance, and how ignorin…
When Problems Show Up, It Doesn't Mean Life Is Falling Apart
Ep 327 · Jan 30, 2026 · 10 min
When problems show up in your life, it is easy to believe that everything is going in the wrong direction. Stress builds, anxiety takes over, and suddenly it feels like life is falling apart, even when many things are actually working. In this episode of 10 Minutes to Less Suffering, I talk about why having problems does not mean your life is bad or broken. We explore why problems are often unrelated, how negative thinking creates stress and exhaustion, and why focusing only on what is wrong can…
How To Stop Losing Yourself
Ep 326 · Jan 23, 2026 · 11 min
This episode of Ten Minutes to Less Suffering explores the concept of coherence and what it means to move through life with beliefs, emotions, and actions working together rather than in conflict. It looks at how everyday responsibilities, relationships, and values can create inner fragmentation when different needs pull in opposing directions. Through a real life example, this episode examines how acknowledging the true cost of a decision can reduce resentment and help people remain participant…
Decision Anxiety: How To Stop Fearing The Wrong Decision
Ep 325 · Jan 16, 2026 · 10 min
Do you feel paralyzed by the fear of making the wrong decision? Decision anxiety can make even small choices feel permanent, risky, and overwhelming. In this episode, you will learn why the mind treats decisions as threats, how fear of uncertainty keeps you stuck, and why most choices are not traps but opportunities for clarity. This episode explores how to stop overthinking decisions, how to recognize the difference between a truly limiting decision and an adjustable one, and why movement, not…
Emotional Balance Under Pressure: Capacity and Choice
Ep 324 · Jan 9, 2026 · 10 min
Feeling overwhelmed, emotionally drained, or under constant pressure? This episode of Ten Minutes to Less Suffering explores how to stay emotionally balanced when life feels heavy, uncertain, and nonstop. The focus is on stress, anxiety, emotional overload, and the way the nervous system struggles when there is no time to recover. The episode introduces the idea of capacity, meaning how much inner space is available to think, feel, pause, and respond instead of react. When that space disappears,…
The Key To Finding More Joy in 2026: Right Sizing Our Problems
Ep 323 · Jan 2, 2026 · 11 min
Every year brings challenges, uncertainty, and problems that can feel overwhelming. While it is not possible to control how many problems arise, it is possible to change how much space they take up in daily life. This episode explores the practice of right sizing problems and placing them back into their true proportion so they do not drown out peace, clarity, and joy. Through a personal story and practical reflection, listeners are guided to recognize how fear, uncertainty, and discomfort can q…
Manifesting Our Dreams In 2026: Reducing Fear, Stress, and Self Doubt In The New Year
Ep 322 · Dec 26, 2025 · 11 min
How can you manifest your dreams in 2026 while reducing stress and anxiety? This episode of Ten Minutes to Less Suffering offers a grounded self help approach to manifestation that focuses on mindfulness, intuition, gratitude, and emotional resilience. Listeners explore how fear, uncertainty, and the need for control can increase suffering and block clarity. The episode explains how pausing, listening to inner guidance, and staying present can support better decision making and personal growth.…
Chop Wood, Carry Water in 2025 and 2026: What Is The Moment Asking?
Ep 321 · Dec 19, 2025 · 10 min
This episode of 10 Minutes to Less Suffering explores the Zen teaching "Chop Wood, Carry Water" and what it means to meet life as it is. The focus is on coherence, staying present without fragmenting yourself, and responding to each moment with steadiness rather than fear or control. Listeners will learn how this teaching applies to everyday challenges, success, loss, and uncertainty. The episode offers a simple, practical exercise to help reduce stress, stay grounded, and stop abandoning yourse…
How To Keep Perspective When Life Feels Stressful
Ep 320 · Dec 12, 2025 · 10 min
Life can feel heavy when stress, worry, and daily challenges take over our perspective. In this episode of 10 Minutes to Less Suffering, I talk about how easily we lose the larger view of our lives and how that loss of perspective can quietly steal joy, peace, and appreciation for what we have. When we are caught in the moment, even small problems can feel overwhelming. I share simple, practical ways to hold a larger perspective, including acceptance, working with uncertainty, and remembering th…
Self Love: A Key To Getting Over Heartbreak And Letting Go Of The Past
Ep 319 · Dec 5, 2025 · 10 min
Do you ever feel that if you understood your past better, especially the heartbreaks, breakups, or painful relationships, you would finally feel at peace? Many of us believe that if we could gather every detail of what happened, why someone acted the way they did, or why love fell apart, our stress and anxiety would disappear. While insight and processing our feelings are necessary, emotional healing also requires self love, acceptance, and the courage to let go of what we cannot know. This enco…
How To Stay Aligned When You Feel Like Everything Is Pulling You Off Center
Ep 318 · Nov 21, 2025 · 10 min
Feeling pulled in a million directions? In today's fast-paced world, it is easy to lose your center, your clarity, and your sense of who you truly are. This episode explores two powerful concepts that can help you reconnect with yourself: resonance and coherence. You will learn why certain people, ideas, and experiences resonate with you, and why resonance alone does not always mean something is healthy or aligned. You will also discover the deeper state of coherence, where your mind, heart, bod…
Nice or Kind? Seeing The Difference and Living From The Heart
Ep 317 · Nov 14, 2025 · 11 min
In this episode of 10 Minutes to Less Suffering, explore how shifting from being nice to being kind can reduce stress, support emotional healing, and create more authentic and mindful relationships. Listeners learn why niceness often comes from fear and people pleasing, while true kindness grows from compassion, honesty, presence, and an open heart. What you will gain from this episode • A clear understanding of the difference between nice behavior and true heart based kindness • Insight into wh…
How Can We Change Our Lives When We Feel Stuck?| Overcome Fear and Trust the Unknown
Ep 316 · Nov 4, 2025 · 10 min
In this inspiring episode of 10 Minutes to Less Suffering, author and life strategist Allison Carmen explores the question so many of us ask: How can we change our lives when we feel stuck, afraid, or uncertain? Through deep reflection and real-life stories, Allison shares how embracing the unknown can open the door to transformation, healing, and possibility. You'll learn how to quiet fear, trust your intuition, and use The Maybe Practice to find hope even when life feels impossible. If you've…
Just Because A Thought Is Real Doesn't Mean It's True
Ep 315 · Oct 28, 2025 · 10 min
Our thoughts are real, but not always true. This episode invites listeners to look beyond the stories the mind creates and find freedom from worry, stress, and self-doubt. Through mindfulness and gentle awareness, it offers a path to calm and clarity in uncertain moments. Listeners are encouraged to trust that every thought can be met with curiosity and compassion, opening the way to inner peace, resilience, and a deeper sense of hope for what is possible. Poem: Our Thoughts Are Real, But Not Al…
Do You Think Life Is Against You?
Ep 314 · Oct 21, 2025 · 10 min
When life takes an unexpected turn, when a relationship ends, plans fall apart, or disappointment appears out of nowhere, it can feel like everything is working against you. But what if life is still on your side, even in those moments of heartache and uncertainty? This podcast episode invites you to see challenges in a new way and find peace in the middle of change. When you stop believing that life is against you, you begin to open to the quiet rhythm of possibility, where healing and hope can…
Finding A Way To Step Into New Possibilities
Ep 313 · Oct 17, 2025 · 11 min
When life takes an unexpected turn and leaves us heartbroken or uncertain, it can be hard to move forward. This rebroadcast is a needed reminder for us all. Once we've taken the time to feel and process those emotions, the real MAGIC begins — MAYBE, ACCEPTANCE, GRATITUDE, INNER GROWTH, and letting go of what we can't CONTROL. It's a simple yet powerful formula for finding freedom, embracing change, and creating a new life filled with possibility. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation to help you…
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