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"On the sweet and savory arts of Lesbian Courtship, sensualizing them with impeccable Bedside Manners, with sage advice on enjoying the Divine Lesbian Relationship in graceful gusto. How to manage a Faux-Pas with Finesse, Jealousy with Mercy and the Apples of Discord without War. Lesbian Rituals, Meta*Physicals and Ceremonies of Life elucidated. "--Publisher's description.