We live in a world in which almost every public image--every interaction--carries an element of sexual desire. And yet it is nearly impossible for us to talk openly and honestly about sex. This is author Tisdale's frank, funny, and provocative invitation to the conversation we've been waiting for--but have been too afraid to start. Tisdale shuns the dry style of academics and takes us on a journey through gender and desire, romance and pornography, prostitution and morality, fantasies and orgasm. She guides us through her field research of peep shows, XXX stores, and even the pornography collection of the British Library. Interweaving her own personal feelings, experiences, and revelations, she presents a brilliant, fascinating, and wholly original portrait of sexuality in America, while encouraging us to explore and create our own "intimate philosophies. "--Publisher description.