~ tracking down this book ~
A psychological study of charmers, con artists, and their hidden alter-ego, the abusers -- how they got that way, various profile examples, and how to recover from their artistry of killing you softly with their charm. Is there someone in your life who: -- Is liked and admired by everyone, but who is privately manipulative, controlling, and abusive? -- Asks, begs, expects you to forgive and forget the same hurtful acts repeatedly? -- Knows exactly what to say or do to keep you from holding him accountable and in turn makes you look like the problem? If so... then this book is for you!